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A 1940’s look? Wedding guest outfit

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Last year in May I attended a friend’s wedding dressed in what I think looks like a 1940’s outfit. I think the hair let me down a little bit, but in general I was quite happy with the outcome. I was very surprised with the acceptance and compliments I got from all the wedding guests. It was the first wedding (and so far the only one) I attended dressed as a woman, and it was so much fun. The only inconvenience was walking on heels for such a long time, it was a morning wedding which went on until quite late in the evening. I wore a hat which I bought in a second hand shop in Camden combined with a H&M red wrap dress and ASOS stilettos in the same colour. The clutch is from Etsy. It was a fantastic sunny day so the bright colours were perfect for the occasion. Hope you like this look.

The Goddess Marilyn

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 I LOVE Marilyn Monroe! I think she’s an iconic woman, her style is quite unique and it has been copied by many, including me… Last year I wrote a small article in Transliving Magazine about Marilyn and for that occasion I did a photoshoot wearing a look inspired by her.  Obviously the platinum blonde hair was a must and I added the cat eye sunglasses (very much on trend in the 1940’s and 50’s) to get a bit of a mysterious woman/ femme fatale look.  Big lips is definitely a must when trying to look like her.  And I combined a SHEIN dark purple pencil dress with an animal print faux fur jacket from DAISY DAY and patent nude stilettos from NEXT. These shoes are the first pair I bought and wore them so many times. I took some pictures wearing a hot pink pants suit but that didn’t look very vintage at all… So this was my first attempt to Vintage. I can see there’s plenty of room for improvement but I was quite happy with the result.  Also it was my first article for...

Hello and Welcome

Hello everybody! My name is Freda Balmain and I’m an early forties crossdresser from London.  I have a passion for fashion and more specifically vintage styles such as the 40’s, 50’s and early 60’s. That’s why I’ve created this blog. I don’t really know how to start, I suppose I should let you know me a bit so I will go to the beginning of my crossdressing experience… I work for a women fashion company and as I said fashion is my passion, so around 4 or 5 years ago and out of nowhere I started fantasising about wearing women’s clothes.  Strangely enough and very different to many other cross dressers I didn’t have this urge at an early age, it started growing on me as an adult. I know many cross dressers grow up confused and ashamed, and in many cases never accept themselves fully. I don’t feel any guilt or shame for doing it. It’s just the way I am and I love it. I believe that if anybody has an issue with it the problem is in their heads, not mine. And how did I do it? It to...